I figured out how to be still.
My problems were coming not from being denied what I want now; they were coming from the fallout from the specific ways in which I was most recently hurt by someone else. After working through those emotional issues (and listening to three hours of Verdi opera), I have realized many things about my heart and my mind that I hadn’t known before.
Now I’m good. It’s nice. I am no longer chasing what I can’t have. I am no longer feeling entitled to things out of my control. I am happy. Hooray!